The junior WiSET talk about sex/discrimination

So I mention at a party (did I say I went to a party in another city to get away from it all? most relaxing, I recommend it) that I am PhD-ing. The following conversation ensues. J is a female undergraduate in engineering, and the 1st sentence is her primary response.

J: So is it mostly men in your lab? Is there much discrimination?
A: Oh yeah! Well, actually it varies. All the techs and 9 in 10 of PhD students are female, post-docs about 50/50, but PIs and above are all male. I can't work it out - it might be just time-lag. On the other hand, of the post-docs who are leaving soon, the male one is going to a PI position and the female ones are leaving research science for [publishing].
J: Yeah, in my course it's like 50/50 at undergrad but all the PhDs and lecturers are male.
A: Do you ever get the feeling that male students...
J:... get a bit more attention?
A: Yeah. Our one male PhD student is like his PI's golden boy, and the rest of us mostly just see post docs. (A/N and in my case, lab protocols scrounged off the internet. Thanks, Protocol Online!)
J: Yeah, I get that a lot. It's the same for us in lab pracs. Screw them, I'm going into [service-related subfield]. Want some cheesecake?
A: Oh man, that looks AWESOME. Look at the rasberries.

It's so nice to have a geographically universal topic for parties.

Wait.

I think what I meant to say was;

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